we're nt tht civil man wer havin a ful blown txt argument ryt nw
i feel like sht.....he jus thnks i jus wntd to shw authority n put my foot dwn
ths gifts wernt individually packd so i tuk out wot lukd like mine n he took the rest....
uffff mayb i shud av jus lt hm do wot he wntd
Mizz Khan.....Stop arguing with him. Take a break and calm down, honey. When you are more relaxed.....call him up.....and tell him what i wrote above^.
Tell him nicely that you have no desire to show your authority or put your foot down. Tell him that you made the request to separate the gifts because you didn't want to inconvenience his khala. It's a burden to ask someone to deliver a gift. Tel him that you didn't want to burden his khala to come and drop off the gifts and that you wanted to make things easy for her. Period. And don't forget to thank him for the gifts.