im realli upset guys
my saas sent sum thngs frm pakistn 4 me n my family n also her sister via my fiances frends hand he cme frm pak today
my fiances khala lives nex dr n my fiance dnt reli c eye to eye wit her....all the package was togther n it was planned ke he was gna gov me it n thn he cud tke his khalas stuf n giv it to her....aftr collectin his mate frm airport he sed hes gna giv the whole package to his khala n tht i cud go nx dr n collect it frm her (ths was at 10.30pm)
i got reali angry n sed if he gives her the thngs i wil nt go n gt em..... consderin most ov the package was 4 me n my fam i thawt iit was ryt ke he cme n gave em to us 1st.....
he gave it to me n thn tuk his khalas thngz....but nw hes reali mad at me cuz his mums gna b pissed off...he blvs he shud av given al the thngs to his khala who thn shud hav distributed it out......n wen his mum finds out tmw shes nt gna b a happy buny wit hm abt ths
i thnk hes jus gng too over the top
wat do u thnk
Here is what I suggest you do. Call up your fiance and nicely tell him that, **"Hi, I really loved the gifts that your family has sent. Please convey my thank you and appreciation to your mom for the presents. I don't want you to be mad at me. I didn't want to inconvenience your khala and that's why I suggested to make things more conenient by separating the gifts. That way your khala wouldn't have to go through the trouble of delivering the gifts. I thought it would be easier for her. I had no knowledge of your mom's wishes in this matter. If i had known, I wouldn't have made this request. I hope that we can move past this and not let it hurt our relationship."
*******There might be a possibility that since his mom couldn't personally deliver the gifts to your herself.....she thought that having another **maternal member of the family such as a KHALA give the gifts on her behalf would seem more formal and appropriate.