the stuff tht i took out assumin was mine i jus gave it bk to hm....
hes gna call his mum tmw n find out wats wat
Okay, that's fine. But talk to him in a calm manner. And make it seem like you didn't want to make things hard for his khala...and that's why you wanted him to separate the gifts. This is a better way of explaining the situation because it makes it look like you were thinking about convenience for everyone.
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And in the future**.....if he has any special instructions about the delivery of gifts....then just listen to him. In the end, it doesn't matter who delivers the gift. The important thing is that the gifts eventually get to the correct location and owner.
As mentioned above, his "khala" represents a maternal figure who can deliver the gifts in a personal manner on behalf of his mom. (we may not agree with it, but the adults have their own perceptions of propreity). ** Tell him that you didn't understand this point until later. ** And that your intention was only to make things convenient for all.