Re: am i in the wrong?
Mizz Khan...
Here are my two cents:
The gifts should have gone to Khala first. Because she is the family's representative here and the elder of the two of you. Its not a big deal to you or me...but it is a big deal to our parents' generation that these rishtey be properly honored and respected. You would have gotten your gifts regardless. But if you waited just a couple of days, you would have made at least 4 people happy: you, khala, saas and fiance. Your argument now might upset 4 people: khala, saas, you and fiance for sure. Always ask yourself these questions before you get upset and confront your partner: is this worth fighting over? Will this argument make a difference in the long run? Will it do more bad then good?
Just be patient and learn what is worth a full blown confrontation.