Re: Am I doing the right thing? MIL drama
you cant change mentality of people. my khala has three son and one daughter. her 2nd son and daughter are treated as 2nd class citizen. we have tried to talk to them about it but son is now getting better as he is getting education and and their fav son didnt but with daughter its still same. they make weired remarks about her. she is allowed to go to school but thats it. there is no respect. i ended up asking my mum why her sis gave birth to her. they dont need her. if she is sick they joke about her dying. they make comments about her growing up quickly but that goes with years not that she just did. she is weak and her height is not growing too.
she has no desires of her own. i sent her expensive hair straightner as i did to all of my other cousins. she said that its no use to her and she doesnt use/need these stuff. i feel so sorry for her. i wish i could change things for her. i tried to tell her mum its wrong bt why would they listen.
you can not really change much. gift your sil alot. make her feel respected, by someone at leaset.