Am i cursed..:/

Okay, so after my last thread, i have another question and that is soley related to me..i don’t know if it’s the result of my better judgement or something else; since i am not a superstitious person i don’t believe otherwise. but whatever i say, happens, i am saying this after observing myself and the surrounding for quite some time…
For example, my lovely sister was all excited about going to a party which was in another city, around 120 km from my place and since i had to take her i got pissed off at something and said " may you have a terrible day"and my word.. she had the worst day of her life!.
the other day i had my paper and there is this very beautiful girl in my class whom i liked but she never liked me back ( forgive me for saying so).. so in the morning i just said to my mom playfully" i wish she comes to me herself" and that day she actualy came to me all by herself!!! without any effort.
then there was this another relative i used to hate and said i wish he dies and he died!
there were some other incidences where what i wished or said, either as a joke or seriously Actually happend.
I know it’s like my wishes come true but my friend was saying People who get their wishes all done is a sign of people who wil have a very hard End..and such people are cursed as they do not get tested as they are not close to Allah :frowning:
my sister actually suggests me to just keep my mouth shut!

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Yes. All of us are.

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aap zardari ko kyun kuch nahi kehti/kehte ....

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hahaha :omg:

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Hah! it's funny but trust me it's an unpleasent feeling when you uselessly speak garbage and it happens... I have to get rid of this habbit.

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kb syed ..... you are not cursed but blessed I think :). So help others & say something for zardari.

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Can we ask you to say something good for us :D

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Okay, now this is now what i asked the question for, let me make it more specific. Does Allah Blesses those He is pleased with And if something bad happens, is it because The Almighty was not pleased with us or is it the expiation of our sins? and is it true that if all your wishes are being granted it is suppose to be a red signa?

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You are a human being and not saved from commiting sins. People make mistakes, because Allah reminds you that you are not perfect until you try to manisfest his
attributes in yourself. Allah does not punish you, because he is not pleased with you, but to cane you.

A prayer which is done within 5 minutes is not a prayer for me. Most fundamental part is that you should know what you are reciting when you speak the Sa'na, Taa'wwuz, recite the Sura-Al Fatiha and some verses of the sura you chose to recite after Sura Al-Fatiha. As long as you don't know what are you reciting, where is the sense of praying at all? When you don't know the meaning of Sura-Al Faitha?

You know why some people are not satisfied with their namaz? Like Today's World they have a fast approach towards everything. Even the prayer! I have read that when you are on the way to God you should adjust to the speed of worm. In other words Patience. If you fall, stand up and go back to your Lord. One day he will give you the dress of Taqwa. Mind my words, God will forgive you, but the people in this world will never. This life is a journey, think! Reflect and you will see that the Lord has not setup this World without a reason. Use your brain.

If your,my, anyone's Namaz would reach the level it should have, believe me my dear, your Lords makes you a King. I experienced that, lekin aag lagi ti, meaning I became a extremist. I stopped praying, I was exaggerating. I got crazy. This happens to alot of people. But then to come back that is Allah's greatness. He made me realize that I shall comeback. Do you know how?

I had a dream 2 days ago. I only remember that I was in pain and I was reciting "Thee alone do we worship, and thee alone do we implore for help". I had such a burden and I thought Allah will never forgive me, but talking to a friend and viewing his views made me think that Allah is not like some people tell you. My friend told me that Allah is calling you back to him, worship him in the way he deserves and ask for help and he will.

I'm talking about God, not about the ungrateful man.

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kb syed, I would like to know whatever you wish, that wish comes true at same time or else? Like the three different incident you mentioned above became true at the spot?

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Peace kb syed,

I suggest you to consult with qualified scholar/Aalim in this regards for better answer. Moreover none born with any type of curse so take that thought out of your mind.