Ok so one of the ladies I know was talking generally with everyone about going back in time. So she asked me if I go back in time like 10 yrs, will I still marry my husband?
The answer I gave her? “yes I will”
The answer I was thinking inside and really wanted to give was? " no I won’t marry him, I won’t marry anyone until I achieve my goals. I won’t marry him coz we’re really diff people. But if he was compatible, his family was fine with me, and I had achieved something in life, THEN yes I would.
So this question was kinda like an eye-opener for me. It made me think that if I loved him so much then shouldn't I want to re-marry him no matter what? Why can't I find out why am I really with him? He doesn't bother me, the stuff I see/hear/go thru bothers me.
hi smiles i posted a huge post on ur other thread. as ppl have said b4 u need time to think things over. take a break. go to ur mums. stay with her. do some classes and see how u feel.
six yrs is a long time with anyone and i feel u r so used to him that u r afraid to be without him. u knw old habits r hardest to break