Re: Am I being too hard on her?
Wanted to clarify that I don’t think there’s wrong with OP being worried about the sister. But a 22-year-old herself has a lot of growing up to do. To be concerned and passing off her concerns to her parents…ie. the true adults in the household is one thing. But to take it upon herself to act as the adult in the house and discipline the 16 year old (when she herself is 22)…is ridiculous in my humble opinion.
I also found the statement that OP trusts her sister ironic. B/C if OP truly trusted her sister…then she would not have snooped to begin with. Granted there are many teens out there who need the extra supervision due to their carelessness…so I’m still wondering what exactly the 16-year-old has done to justify this amount of scrutiny.