Am I being oversenstive?

*her financial situation isn't tight for sure.. but my bro is helping a lot with the wedding. maybe it was a dig at me that she can't afford clothes cos of that... *

I was looking forward to going shopping with the family to get their clothes. My other bhabhi is always asking my opinion on wat colours to get, and my sis lives abroad and will not order until we are together to choose. just feel like she's distancing herself from us. her family has always been first for her and she can order all new outfits for all of her neices' weddings but not mine... I'm the last in my family to be married, its a really big occasion for everyone else in my family. Just not her it seems...