Am I a horrible person for inquiring about the guy's English speaking skills?

[Deeba1234]

Re: Am I a horrible person for inquiring about the guy’s English speaking skills?

@jumpyb

**Potential rishta è this means spending your LIFE with this guy and you NEED to be sure of him. So if his English bothers you than you should have told him on the first place. Please clear. He living in UAE for 6 years does not really mean it would have changed him (broad minded). Were you pointing out his bad English is not an insult to him and takes it constructively. But off course it also depends how you had put your point across. If you were very bold or harsh or sounded rude then you have hurt his ego…. I don’t have to tell you what happens if you do that, you already know. **

This..

Wanting a partner who speaks English well is your preference and that’s perfectly fine..

I think you were too harsh asking him directly why his English wasn’t better tho..