Am I a catch?

Nutwer........you need to grow up. Nobody makes or forces a person go to the dark side. You're giving me way too much credit and exempting yourself from responsibility.

Regardless of what another person says or does.........it's always YOUR responsibility as an individual to maintain yourself. If you hit a person because he made fun of you..........and then complain because you now have a reputation of a "violent" person..............you can't blame the person for your actions. Because you always had the option of conducting yourself decently. Nobody forced you to hit. You did it yourself. So, don't blame others for going to the "dark" side. When disagreeing with your posts.......I've used decent language for the most part. I said that talking about a particular excessively topic can push people away. This is just a common sense observation. I didn't give you a gaali. You can't prevent others from posting their views........but one should be responsible for their own reputation by being mindful of how they post. For example, if people get on your case for saying "Is God perverted"........then don't blame them for ruining your reputation........take responsibility for your own self.

By blaming others for making you to to the dark side..........you're giving the impression that you're not strong enough to take accountability for yourself.