Thank you all for the comments. I got my answer. I am sorry to delete the post, but due to personal reasons I need to keep this private. You never know, how news spreads if picked up by the wrong source.
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If what you said is true, then she is a drama queen and spiteful.
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Ew. Girls like that are annoying and awful.
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^what this poster said. She sounds like drama queen.
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what a nightmare. she's too up herself, tell her to knock it down a peg or show her the door bro.
These things doesnt make u a bad husband.... always expensive gift?!!! Not as luking as she is?!!! She is married to u y is she still thinking abt her previous proposals? Is she regretting it? Or she jus wants u to tell her how lucky u r to have her etc... btw she is the one who shuld be thankful!!! wat leads to ur breakdown? I guess her behaviour!
She is really " na shukri " she cant get enuf she jus wants u to treat her like a queen... jus buy her everything dat is expensive n keep on telling her how beautyful she is.
I mean seriously if u do all the things u mentioned above...wtf is her problem? Zyada sar pe charti jaa rahi hai... u need to do something
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What exactly do you both fight about ? Regular fights usually have an underlying issue which needs to be addressed.
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Call her out on her *. You decide what is, and isn't acceptable and then tell her that those are your limits. She will cry, **, and moan about it but she'll either accept it and you'll both be happier, or she'll leave you, which imo, is better than living with a psycho.
The shopping would be fine within reason, we all do it, but you need to talk to her about what you guys can afford. As for bringing up her rishtas, tell her that you find that disrespectful, but say it politely and calmly. No need to yell and be loud. Figure out your boundaries, tell her what they are, give her a few chances to get used to new limits. Most women will respect a guy who will have convictions and will stand up for himself, even to her. She'll be angry, but she will respect you, and that's more important. Be firm, but reasonable. Like you said, there are always two sides.
Agree! Want to know dis 2
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Did she started behaving/saying all this after becoming pregnant ? If yes then its hormones . . If not try taking a break from each other like maybe asking her to spend some time with her own family
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Call her out on her *. You decide what is, and isn't acceptable and then tell her that those are your limits. She will cry, **, and moan about it but she'll either accept it and you'll both be happier, or she'll leave you, which imo, is better than living with a psycho.
The shopping would be fine within reason, we all do it, but you need to talk to her about what you guys can afford. As for bringing up her rishtas, tell her that you find that disrespectful, but say it politely and calmly. No need to yell and be loud. Figure out your boundaries, tell her what they are, give her a few chances to get used to new limits. Most women will respect a guy who will have convictions and will stand up for himself, even to her. She'll be angry, but she will respect you, and that's more important. Be firm, but reasonable. Like you said, there are always two sides.
Yap..i was going to say same..
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Why are you such a pushover? Where is your backbone?
Doesn't really sound like you're getting anything out of this marriage except good food and perpetually drained bank account
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I feel there is a lack of proper communication between the two of you.
If most of your fights end up in what you did for her or didn't do, that means something is bothering her. Everybody likes to live a peaceful life, she won't deliberately make her life full of arguments. Its equally stressful for her. I'm not saying she is right/wrong or you are right/wrong. Because you really want this to work out, you need to talk to her. Be a friend & find out what is really bothering her. It won't happen overnight, so you need to be patient. If this doesn't work out, then consult a professional in this field ; marriage counselor.
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Try to find out why the depressive state of mind. What causes that.
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Then maybe she was expecting married life be like out of reality and more like those in books/TV etc
but out of curiosity is she the only child or daughter or maybe the youngest ?
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