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On a scale of 1-10, how evil a MIL does/would your mom make? (1 being the lowest obviously)

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guppans don’t have brothers… refer the thread…http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/634252-guys-female-family-members-rishta-experience.html

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0... My mother is a saint, she stays out of my bro and his wife's business. She intend to do the same with when my younger brother gets married.

My MIL is not evil either. I have a pretty respectful relationship with her. Alhamdulilah.

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I don’t have any brothers, youngest of 3 girls..so can’t really comment on the MIL/Bahu part, but as far as Saas-Damaad goes, my Ammi and husband were closer than she and I were! It was like he was her beta and I was the bahu :smack:

So yea, I’d say 0 as well. She never interfered in our business, or egged me on..none of that draamaybaazi you see and hear about

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my bhabi was young very young when she lost her mum n then came step mum, now mum bhabi are best friends , tali dono hath se bajti hai both mum n bhabi are awsum love n respect each other , allhumdullah they have amazing relationship

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I dont have a brother but I can see my mom probably wont be a good MIL even though she is the perfect MIL to her sons in law.. here is why I dont think she will be a good mil..She doesnt interfere in anyone's life, she doesnt speak bad or tells you to do what to do BUT if there is a mess, she will start cleaning up and then later complain about how she did all of that or it wont have happened.. like when she is visiting us, she will wakeup early in the morning and will even have lunch ready at 11am but she will be exhausted by 2.. i am a daughter and i tell her not to do so much but she keeps saying "tu kon karay ga" as in we wont clean, cook or do dishes if it wasnt for her :D

If she did that to her DIL, she wont take it well.. or if my MIL did it to me, I will be offended too so I can see why she wont be a good mil and we often tell her good thing we dont have a brother :D

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Between 4-5. She's got a big heart.. loves eveyone, jokes around A LOT. I can see a DIL getting offended to jokes she makes lol...even though they are really meant harmlessly.

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Hmm.. probably around 6.. She is straight forward. If you're doing something she doesnt agree with, you will know it. She doesnt sugarcoat her words. I think she should sometimes lol.

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It would be awesome if the bahus of these same people being rated can also give their pov and rating! Im sure it could be opposite... :D.