Does the prospect of being alone till death scare some people? Do people start getting extremely unhappy and miserable as the middle age is starting to leave them behind with no happy memories at all. Should we have organizations and clubs for these people where they can hangout and have at least some interactions.
Yes, being alone scares me. In my case, being down has nothing to do with middle age. Once depression hits, it's mostly down than up. My depression was due to the death of a loved one and not my age. I have happy memories and I keep making happy memories. Similarly, I have sad memories too. No, we don't need clubs dedicated to us. We just need the ridiculing and pitying to stop. I haven't seen single people get ridiculed for being single except on GS. I have no issues with my age yet I hesitated when greek Goddess asked me because I've seen people get ridiculed and made fun of on GS because of their age.
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@SID_NY the purpose of this thread is to settle old scores and to ridicule some people. And if this post is not closed, then i reserve the right to respond....... and this time i will go on to finish what i left unfinished last time.
These people who tease others for being single are extremely sick and most likely psychopaths who have developed into this by their own insecurities. Just like every sadist has their own sad childhood that shape them into a bad person. If we need anything, we should establish something for these kinda psychos
You won’t let me enter your neighborhood 
. I cover from head to toe bobby. Well… Not to toe but you get the gist. I’d be considered a terrorist in your part of the world.
I’m an introvert by nature and don’t make many friends. I have a small circle of really good friends though. I don’t think there’s anything wrong in having less friends as long as you have good friends. Quality over quantity.
**Yes Adam Elaihe Salaam ended up Alone on Earth when Allah told him and Amma Hawa to EXIT Jannah!
He cried some say for 200 years while all alone! He was ashamed of the Sin he had committed disobeying a direct order we all know! but he could not find the words how he could ask Allah’s Forgiveness
Then Allah Subhanahu Wataala Himself taught Adam ES how he can make Astaghfaar: **Al-Baqara (The Cow) - 2:37
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فَتَلَقَّى آدَمُ مِن رَّبِّهِ كَلِمَاتٍ فَتَابَ عَلَيْهِ إِنَّهُ هُوَ التَّوَّابُ الرَّحِيمُ (2:37)
**"Thereupon ADAM received words [of guidance] from his Sustainer, and He accepted his repentance: for, verily, He alone is the-Acceptor of Repentance, the Dispenser of Grace. - 2:37 "
So the point here is we are NEVER ALONE! the Holy Quran tells us:
Allah Subhanahu wa Taala is closer to us than our "**Jugular VEIN"
So it is the Shaitaan’s waswassa that tells us to despair! when we feel alone! 
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People may remain single (or decide to remain single) for a variety of reasons, some just don't want commitments, some are too busy in their careers or looking after/bringing up/ financially supporting old, sick or young relatives or those who just cannot find their other half despite trying their best for all sorts of reasons. I don't see why anyone will make fun of any single person as most of the time its not their fault or may be they don't even care! It is also true that a very small number of single people do get offended for no good reason when a married person or a couple talks about their relationship, adventures, life activities, holidays, professions and success etc. Some of them do it subconsciously and do not even realize this. I think in such situations, its better for the people who are in relationships to be more sensitive and careful about hurting others feelings. People do not become bitter and angry just for the fun of it, and not everything in life comes in backs and whites. A bit of humility and restrain on both sides will go a long way.
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Thank you for explaining this. I sincerely hope and look forward to no one, absolute no one even attempt to make fun of anyone’s age, race, marital status or looks. Not atleast in our GS culture.
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From my POV yes some people.. specially the old ones who are single parent Or dont have children.. and generally, who isnt afraid of loneliness.. but some people are so mentally strong that they takes it as opportunity until they meet someone or not.. but yes, it’s worrying all around the world, but opening such organization seems a bit offensive I guess, some people have moral values and they keep everything to themselves, so instead of these clubs, awareness should be spread and environment should be made friendly for everyone.. because not everyone is talkative or interested in going to these platforms..
Well said brother.. and yes, it’s all about shaitan.. the chawal tareen cheez in the world 