`behave a certain way, say a certain thing, correct our ways, bite our tounge, and not be rude etc to someone because HUM CHOTE HAIN, so respect the BAREY.
then we are BAREY, we are told to behave a certain way, say a certain thing, correct our ways, bite our tounge, and not be rude o someone because WOH CHOTE HAIN…TUM BAREY HO you should know better?
hahaha...baRe ho ke bhii chai'n na paayaa to kidhar jaayeNge? isii kaa naam zindagii hai...we must always 'GIVE' rather than 'GET'...we were told that 'if you GIVE love N respect NOW, you'll GET the same in return when we are older'...may be you are NOT old enuf! just hang in there...wait till you are 60 plus! :)
It happens, and in your case you are living with in-laws, therefore you are advised by your fil/husband/mil to behave in certain way.
It is frustrating for you, but you know it is always tough to live with in-laws, you are stuck in a most conservative region of the country, but that does not mean you have lost all thing. Look at your future years, those will be amazing.
I can understand being told when we are chote........we all need to learn......but if you are barey and you still need to be told then something is wrong.