OK here I go:
I wanted to write in this thread the day this thread came out but because of my personal negative feelings about some one out there, I refrained myself to write in this thread.
Now I think, my personal feelings should not be a hurdle between TOPP and me.
In my views,
We do not need any more Forums (Sorry Ghalib Bhai, this is strictly my personal suggestion, no offence please). What I have seen that people go with the flow every where. They want to get together whereever they like to. This is our member's responsibility to get to gather in a proper place. Every forum has its guidelines and every one sees it before entering into the forum. It is our (member's) responsibility
to avoid the storm and go on the proper roads. But as I mentioned that people like to go with the flow, so we see that some time these storm is in the general area and some time this storm hit the Meeting new people forum. Here the duty of the moderator starts, when a moderator sees that the thread do not relate to the forum, he/she can get into the thread and asked the member to move it to the proper forum within a given times otherwise it would be deleted/moved.
Regarding what should come under what forum,
Every thing, which is not covered by any other forum, could be discussed under "General Forum"
Meeting new People forum needs more attention at this time. In my views, in "Meeting new people" People can discuss all the light topics such as "finding a new sole mate", Introduction, and marriage/Friendship topics can come under the "Meeting new people" forum.
Topics like "Listen" "to be or not to be"???? Background image, FORMANITES ARE GREAT, missin my city!!!!!!, geelay haath, representing your pakland, ICQ # NUMBERZ UPDATE, Dhanak99 - teesree SCP gol mez kaanferens, Introducing Monique, Internet Stalkers!!!!, kashmiri rulzzzzzzzzzzzz, How do "U" spend and celebrate ur Eid?, The Best Writers Of GUPSHUP Award Goes To..,
In my views these topics do not belong to the "meet new people" forum. These topics were more suitable in the General Forum or some of them for Arts, Culture and Heritage.
Topics about religion and politics could be mixed into one and other forum because Allam Iqball said
"Juda hoo deen sayaasat sey tu reh jaatee hey changezee"
I don't think other forums need any reorganization.
Regarding to be fair, that is where the problem starts. There should be the same lines for Pro and Anti Islam people. Who ever cross the line should be given the warning (Warnings should not be only for "MSAQIBJ" LOL, just kidding).
We should keep in minds that when we use the words "For Pakistan and for Pakistani People", you organizers would bump into lots of different types of people. The people who are strict and want to keep their attachments with their roots and the people who wants to plant the new hybrids. I know it is a very hard and very careful type of job to keep the balance between these two groups. When you use the word "For Pakistan" generality of your page goes away. So when you use this word, every Pakistani, Anti/pro or neutrals would expect a special treatment (by thinking that this is their own web page) and that is the point which makes your job more sophisticated to keep the balance among all these groups.
[This message has been edited by msaqibj (edited April 29, 1999).]