Why do you think the hair pulled back wont look good on you??my recommendation is that you get it all pulled back and leave a few strands out for a softer look. Tika and jhoomer would look good on the pulled back hair.
however, if you’re looking to get the side parted hair, jhoomer sure wouldnt look good with that.you could try using flowers..thats what i did for my walima.and it looked really nice.