Blessed, when we talk about something excessively, then that means that we ourselves are “faarig.” Also, I don’t agree with your point about hasad. If someone wonders “Why does this person talk about the same thing all the time”, that doesn’t necessarily indicate jealousy. That is the person’s natural reaction to an individual who keeps repeating the same subject over and over again.
it will be a matter if i start creating threads like “haters of aish down down” or anything with similar title thats when ppl should be annoyed by me that yes she is an actress and will be liked and disliked but blessed2006 has no right to create threads like that however i havenot doen any such thing nor will. i find each and every pic of aish very pretty so when her pics r posted i have no idea why ppl get so irritated when i praise them.
Koi banda agar tum se bhi aik hi topic par baat karay ga, to tum bhi us banday se aik din tang aa jaao gi. Is ka yeh matlab nahin hai k tumharay dil main hasad hai ya tum faaragh ho.
yes most probably i will be annoyed if one person is going on and on about one thing but i will not tell them to “shutup, u just going non stop” because i dont know how to break ppl’s heart. i’ll keep listening or move from there…mujhe agar aish ki pic pretty lagti hai tou mujhe sirf uski taareef is liye nahi karni chahiye ke doosre members mere baare main kya sochte hain. no i will never do that since i am here to express my own opinion not others…when i dont get annoyed or irritated by other members who 24/7 praising other actors (lolly/bolly) then i dont expect the same thing with me too.
if you are praising someone’s beauty and the other person is annoyed that you are not praising THEM, then maybe that can be hasad.
my point is very simple yet again i’ll give u an example. if aish’s pic is posted and i write “she luks immensly pretty here” why is that a problem with other ppl? why dont they just give their opinion on picture and leave and if ppl cant take my comments on aish they simply should not read my comments
But generally speaking (and I’m not accusing you or anything) when you talk to someone, a healthy conversation is one in which people talk about several different topics, not only one topic all the time. For example, they’ll talk about various movies, books, etc, instead of just one person.
i am not here to establish my self as a speaker or something…i truely feel like praising this beautiful woman and i dont think i need to hide my feelings just because other members will be annoyed.
Most likely you don’t know Aishwarya Rai on a personal level, you don’t live with her. But from experience, I’ve learned that sometimes the most attractive people can have the worst personalities in reality. Praise for a person should not only be limited to beauty. Praise should also include a person’s ability and their deeds. And you might argue that Aishwarya has given money to various charites wagairah wagairah. Lekin, celebrities might feel compelled to do certain things (charity) to upkeep their image. What is in their hearts, only Allah knows. There is even a hadith that Allah doesn’t look at your shakal or what you have. Instead He looks at your heart and deeds. Therefore, it’s better to keep praise in MODERATION because we don’t know the true reality of someone’s heart/nature. MODERATION is key here.
yup i dont know her personally at the moment but she seems a very nice woman not beacuse she has done charity work (i dont even know if she has). rest u said was true that yes seerat is more important then seerat. but aish is an actress (i am not going to establish a rishtedari with her that i need to know what type of person she is) she will remain beautiful for me even if she opts for the worst behaviour.
