ok so we went from BEAUTIFUL & INTELLIGENT to SOMEWHAT beautiful & intelligent toooooooooooo DECENTLY beautiful & intelligent ! 
we’re making progress initiator 
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lol.. that was always in the footnotes, but I was also trying to convey a message that perhaps using different words would lead somewhere.
If you read Iqbal's "Shikwa", it starts with raising arguments/questions, the answers to which Iqbal had already found in "Jawab-e-shikwa". Jawab-e-shikwa was written before Shikwa.
initiator and i thought girls talked in riddles 
***if u must convey a message always keep it short and sweet ! ***
Works everytime 
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that was a dynamic approach to conveying a message that perhaps using MORE WORDS would help convey it. I was CLEAR on what I meant from the beginning. :p
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initiator dude, sheyn’s right - some of us have shorter attention spans, so you must make it straight up. :halo:
p.s. initiator is aggressive with his demands 
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/\ woman, you are ignored.
was that message for me 
i knoe i said keep it short but i din’t say be blunt ! :pcg:
No. It was for the one above you.
We’re alright. :biggthumb
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Yessssssssssssssssssssss. Initiator is finally going to ignore me 
only if u speak in short , sentences 
i lose interest very quickly 
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Why are you confused sheynie? 
Because initiator said “we’re alright” 
Some of you are confusing aggression with physical abuse.
Lassie bashers are wankers, nowt but wankers. That isnt aggression. Its wankerism.
hahahahahha wankerism...... LMAOOOOO
/\ Yes, but the fine line between that kind of aggression and abuse, is very crossable. On that note, most women would like it till it is in the first phase, and when it transcends into the second, they start complaining.
Shouldn't the women be CLEAR about what they exactly want?
We are clear about what we want... the problem is men have selective hearing.... therefore when we tell you what we want... you dont really listen..
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You know what I like? A man who is aggressive when it counts...not physically but in different aspects of his life like career and family. Making sure things are taken care of and I dont have to baby-sit him. Good words would be someone with initiative and drive.
Women tell men all day long about what they want...men need to clear out the ear wax and start paying attention.
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hmmmm
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Women are complicated creatures.
One min they want u to be like somthing, next min the opposite of that.
So what shud we be like.
u r also wanting evrythin
hmmmm
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..................:)