lol@peri menopausal symptoms. how long does perimenopause last, pal? that was pretty lame even for you. not to make it personal but do explain where exactly have you had issues with perimenopausal women? most people don’t even notice this stuff, but somehow this is your big reason?
**You failed to read my post. **
**I never made it the big reason. ‘One of the reasons’. **
People may not notice so what. Women themselves do and have growng kids to deal with at the same time.
Come on if this was the reason you thought I was mysogynist lol, then either you have no idea of women biology/psychie or just made a comment in vain just to say something.
Like I said, read. It might help you.
younger parents older parents - there are no easy generalizations. younger couples are typically less stable financially and emotionally. this whole “much closer to younger parents” is bull. age isn’t even a primary factor in this.
**Even if they are less stable financially at younger age, at least they have kids growing by the time they have worked for lets say next 10 or 15 years and slowly but surely have put aside enough money for their children needs in future. Make an appointment with a financial advisor and fake you have two kids, what is the best way to ensure their good college education, your needs when retire etc. **
You will be amazed how that works. Unless off course you plan to live in different …nevermind.
marrying a younger woman is great if you are someone hung up on patriarchal issues - want your wife to be obedient to you, subservient to your parents, not know as much about the world as you, someone you can coach and mentor into being your number 2. like you said, someone to stay at home and play with your kids. and there is nothing wrong with wanting such a wife, most people with your background want just that.
**Complete and utter nonsense and generalization. **
**Care to show anywhere I said anything close to what you said? I proved with medical science, simple math and financial sensibilty my points. **
**How about you do the same! **
if you want someone who is an equal partner in a fulfilling marriage, you wouldn’t start off with, oh.. i wonder if she will have energy to play with grandkids.
Off course. Preferably both should be young or if not then at least the women who in every society are expected to and actually do spend more times with kids. Try refuting it. You wont be able to. if nothing else do the simple math!
you ain’t fooling no one but yourself with reasons like that.
**Never claimed to fool anyone. One can help oneself. **