age

muslimgirl87 · July 16, 2008, 1:08pm

what is according to you guys perfect age for marriage?
Is 21 an good age for a guy to marry?

Mirch · July 16, 2008, 1:16pm

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When a guy is able to support a family, when a gal can handle the responsibilites to run a family.
Many factors play a part , age is just one factor.

mama_ki_dua · July 16, 2008, 1:16pm

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I don't think a guy should get married before the age of 26 or 27 (they are still immature at the age of 21)

hareem01 · July 16, 2008, 6:14pm

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agree with mirch.

hsap · July 16, 2008, 6:31pm

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i agree with mirch & hareem .............

samraali22 · July 16, 2008, 6:53pm

whoever we are talking about, is he done with college?

muslimgirl87 · July 16, 2008, 11:04pm

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Both girl and guy are studying, both are 21, girl is like 6 month older

Decent_6Chora · July 16, 2008, 11:14pm

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For guys, more than age IMO it should be education and financial stability that should matter. I have seen mature guys of age 22-23 doing very well in their profession/business and I have seen KHILANDRAY LARKEY of age 30 who are still trying to evaluate which profession should they go to.

For girls it has to be education (which regretfully is the most neglected part in vast majority). Girls are more mature at younger age than guys

Maximum_Madness · July 17, 2008, 4:25am

As per religion there is not pre-requisite called "able to support family" in deciding marriage..

you know what if a guy indulges in adultery due to his genuine need , the parents are responsible for this act.. this no one knows.. other wise 26-28 is a good age..
my myself got married at the age of 27...

but for a marriage to succeed the attitude is more important than age..

cricketplaya · July 17, 2008, 5:25am

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Guys shouldn't wait too long, (this I say to myself before I say to my brothers).. I am 20, and I think I should get married fast!!!! Regarding financial stability, as long as you can keep everyone happy around you by the grace of Allah, you are able to marry. Education is a must obviously in this day and age, so if you can concentrate on education while you're married then well and good, if not wait until you complete your studies. mera bas chalta to kal shadi hoti....

Monk · July 17, 2008, 6:14am

my elder brother got married at 19-20.
he and his son did grow up together. There were times when my father got mad and yelled at them together. lol
That was fun to watch.

Let_Uz_Chat · July 17, 2008, 1:30pm

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At 21 Kuch laugo ke aqal un kay takhnau mein hoti hai so you need a blend of age and maturity.

muslimgirl87 · July 17, 2008, 7:38pm

I agree with you

muslimgirl87 · July 17, 2008, 7:39pm

haha,THat is so cool.

americandasi · July 17, 2008, 8:26pm

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any age after 20

sweefs · July 17, 2008, 8:30pm

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I agree with mirch. Age really isn't all that I think. It's about how you can support your family etc etc.

AnGeL_EyEs · July 17, 2008, 9:24pm

well said!

I have often seen guys tell their parents that they NEED to get married and parents who avoid fulfilling their request.

Like you said....it's not the age that should matter but the attitude. If the guy and girl are mature enough and the NEED to be married is there...then they should get married. Everything else will follow.

otherwise it's best to wait til the guy can support his family.

arshad5 · July 17, 2008, 10:15pm

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I don't think a guy should get married before 25.

soni27 · July 17, 2008, 10:17pm

i think it depends on personality and maturity of the guy and whether the guy and igrl have a good understanding..regardless of age..if ur serious to commit then you can get through other obstacles like study/job..