age, love, compatibility

geared towards the men,

she matches what you want in a woman with respect to arranged marriages in every way, highly educated, pakistani, good muslim, attractive, fashionable, the witty repartee between the two of you is great. when you two talk you can talk for hours on topics you’re both interested in-politics, law, pakistani society, islam…you name it, from the looks of things you’re in love with her well that’s what everybody else that sees you two together thinks

the only issue that might be a slight problem is that she’s older than you by a few years. hey if God had brought her into this world alittle later say around the time you were born, everything would’ve clicked perfectly!

what would you do?

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When everything else fits in well as per your requirements, then i don't think age should matter so much!

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YAY!!! OLDER WOMAN!!!!

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Marrying someone younger than me ?:nono: :bummer:

But it really depends. In the above case, age alone should not hold them back.

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seriously? these couple word replies…:rolleyes:

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Age is nothing but a number. It's maturity, honesty and personality that counts.

Why should age come in to it?..

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If we click, I don't mind marrying a guy who's a year or two younger than me.

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there is a whole philosophy behind marrying women younger than you; and since I am such a strong believer of that philosophy, therefore I would not

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Prophet Muhammad (saw) was employed by Hazrat Khadija (ra), and she was amazed by the his(saw) personality, and they way he(saw) conducted business she(ra) sent proposal to him(saw).

you know what, hazrat Khadija (ra) was 40 years old and Prophet Muhammad(saw) 26.

so yeah, it can work if both guy and gal are comfortable and compatible then go ahead.

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:k:

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my bro in law is married 2 moroccon lady she is 11 years elder than him but as it says love is blind he married her against family wishes n he forced his family 2 accept her at the time of wedding he was 22 n she was 33 n they r happily married for 2 n half years n after marriage they faced really tough time but she was always there n supported her a lot they r expecting their 1st baby :)

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I'll call 1-800-INSTANT-NIKKAH

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few years don't really make much difference unless the guy wants a very young woman (under 22).

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well it's a question in relation to a guy and girl i know here, they seem perfect for each other but just the age issue seems to be in their way. both have a similar professional background so i just wanted to see how the guppies and guppans would react to such a situation.

good to know that khadija was older than prophet mohammad and they were compatible. But we have to admit here that we're talking about the holy prophet, he would be perfect in every way, if only human males and females were so perfect and wonderful

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If everything else fits, why get hung up on a number?