husband wife mein…kitna age difference hone chahiye aap logon keh khayal mein?
i mean…jese keh aap sub ko pata hai..for girls…keh shadi hoti hai…bachhe hote hein…to aik dum se bohat barri lagne lagti hein larkiyaan…jab keh larkon mein farq nahi aata itna! to…i mean…i think keh ZYADA hona chahiye…
wese i jus wanted to know…wat do u guyz think?? kitna?
kia baat karti hain aap rani jee aaj kal ladkiyaan apni age ke ladkon se choti lagti hain...aaj kal ladkay hi burhay hote hain..:p
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*Originally posted by CurruptAngel: *
kia baat karti hain aap rani jee aaj kal ladkiyaan apni age ke ladkon se choti lagti hain...aaj kal ladkay hi burhay hote hain..:p
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achha?? wese i am not good at these kinda baatein par...
par i thot keh shadi keh baad...and after having kids and everything...larkiyaan aik dum se kaafi barri lagne lagti hein...
so aap ne jawab nahi diya..i mean...
aap keh khayal mein kitna age difference ho?
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*Originally posted by Rani Pakistani: *
achha?? wese i am not good at these kinda baatein par...
par i thot keh shadi keh baad...and after having kids and everything...larkiyaan aik dum se kaafi barri lagne lagti hein...
so aap ne jawab nahi diya..i mean...
aap keh khayal mein kitna age difference ho?
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maine diya to jawab...sorry I didn't explain it for you...Well aaj kal ladkiyan shadi ke baad even bachay hone ke baad bhi young lagti hain kyunke woh work out karti hain aur apni health ki dekh bhaal rakhti hain...isliye age doesn't matter anymore...I have no age preference for marriage...:-)
i think that the guy should be between 3-6 years older than the girl, because guys mature at a later age anyway and i think its better anyway for the girl if the guy is older.
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i think that the guy should be between 3-6 years older than the girl, because guys mature at a later age anyway and i think its better anyway for the girl if the guy is older.
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Hows it better if the guy is older?
Does that mean a guy cannot marry older woman?! i dont think so.... its all upto mental adjustment... just one of my observations... :-)
I agree with Aleezay, its all depends on the individuals concerned too.
Age difference is ok!
Bilkul sahi farmaaya. :k:
Just one example from my family: My sister is older than her hubby and I think they are a perfect match.
So age really doesn’t matter at all.
sexist statement 
i agree with Aleezay... Personally, to me, age difference does not matter at all. (An oft-quoted example is Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) and his first wife).
It's all relative... sometimes you get along much better with individuals who are older than you, that's just the way the personality interaction works. Depends upon how mature and compatible the husband/wife are... i could be wrong, but IMO age is not really a significant factor at all. If the personalities and "morals", goals, etc. are compatible, then that's more important.
not sexist at all its actually true!
Re: age difference
hamare to khayal main husband ko har umar main shaadi karni chaahiye .............
wesai umar ki kami ya ziadti sai koi farq nahin parta according to islam.
but according to our so-called social systems a wife has to be 4 or 5 years younger to her husband so the couple looks nice......
as Aleezay said it all depends upon the mental adjustment
^ I agree, it all depends on the menstrual cycles
Funguy you need to get married.
i wont ask if u hve a life:rollyes:
wat sort of a life hve u got:D
Age difference ofcourse matters. One has to be able to deal with the contemporary nature of day to day living between a husband and wife. Imagine having kids when your husband is 45 and you are 25. You children would have only 25 yrs to be with their father, if the avg lifespan for men is 70 yrs. Not to mention the length of time till death does you part bit.
Also, it is more than just about being with each other. It is about how you soicalize and what kind of friends you wilh have. Music, movies, etc What makes you campatible. Whether your spouse tunes you out when you are talking about something other than depends undergarments. 
yeah 15, 20 years of age difference is good..