I personally think there should be atleast like 3 yearz of difference between a couple cuz ... so so so many i'v seen couples where the girl is looking like she is the mother of the guy like seriously lol. **
**and guyz tend to look young for a long time where as gurlz tend to look older a lot faster then guyz ... like so many times i'v seen guyz who are like 26 but they don't even look like they're 23 they actually look like 20 and so many gurlz who look like 22 but the're actually like 2-4 yearz older then what they look like ... I'm not saying it the same with everyone single person but a lota times yea.and another thing, soo soo many girls let them selvs down like after 3-5 yearz of marriege i never really understood that, like they would just stop wearing nice cloths and make up and all that fun stuff and just start looking like garbage. And yet so many women complain about their husbands for leaving them. **(not everyone ) lol**
*like my aunt when she got married she would always be lookin soo pretty and nice cloths and nice make up on, all the time .. but now she looks soo horrible. *
*** bye the way no offence to any gurlzz out there, i myself am a gurl***
Age is just a number. It doesn't matter if the guy is older or younger,1 year difference in age or 20yrs, I tend not to judge because I've seen all types of relationships work. For myself I would say 3 years at the most either way (older or younger). :D
I think that minds matching matters more than the age
I know a couple with 12 years age difference, but yet has the best chemistry I have seen. They understand each other so well that both just look at each other and they know what the other person wants.
On the other hand, I have also seen cases where 6 or 7 year age difference causes problems. For example, I have a far relative who got married when she was 25 and her husband was 32. According to her, the age difference is too much and that they are poles apart in thinking.....she wants to go out and enjoy life, and he is not like that. She says the difference should only be like 2 years so that both partners are on the same track. Though I don’t think that age is the matter in this because I have seen men who are in their 40s and they still like to go out, have fun, etc
In a nut shell, I think that having your minds match and the couple to understand each other is more important than the age factor. Of course, I do feel that the difference should not be of more than 10 – 12 years. That just seems too much!