Age-difference

OMG, all these talk about 4-5 yr difference between men and women is making depressed. I'm going back home in about a month to get married. I don't who the guy is yet, as i will be selecting a guy when i get there.

Almost all the rishtas that i've got so far, has guys at least 3 yrs younger than me. At first, I was very reluctant but later i agreed to see them as many ppl have said to me that age is not a big factor in marrige.