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I second that

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I seriously don't get it still, taking the responsibility of a 1 year old is a BIG thing! feeding/bathing/diaper changing/putting to sleep, etc. etc. its just too much work which anyone except the mother can get bogged down by. Do your in-laws take care of the baby completely right now? do they do all the diaper changing, bottle sterilizing, cooking baby's separate food like khichri etc.,? do they think the baby can sleep without the mother?

What's wrong with your in-laws, love is one thing, but physically taking care of a 1 year old is HARD, its a huge responsibility and at times the caregiver has to sacrifice sleep, or eating on time etc. did your in-laws even think for a minute about all that before asking her to be sent over.

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^ They know she won't say yes (and if she did they'd talk trash about that), so they can insist. Her MIL works. I just don't see how it makes sense. A 1yo is not a toy.

Just ignore it and laugh at their silliness. No need to engage in any discussion about it.

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JUST BECAUSE your MIL keeps saying something...no matter how forcefully or how often.......doesn't mean that it will necessarily happen. You are her parent.....you have the ultimate say. You have more of a say in the arrangement since your daugther will be with YOU in England....so you will be held more accountable if you were to let her go with some relos to Pakistan. Hypothetically speaking if you were to let her go with them.....and something God forbid goes wrong........you will be held responsible and will appear more foolish.

It's just silly of you to even believe that something will actually takes place just because a person keeps saying it. They're just words, Nadz. Common sense should prevent someone from getting so worked up over a bunch of ridiculous comments. It's the frequent lack of inner himmat that makes me question if it's trolling.

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Keep up that tight smile Nadz and don't fall into an argument.

Have a safe flight.

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meh.. im starting to think more and more you and MIL deserve each other until the end of time.

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Maybe you're just being a little too hormonal and interpreting all this literally. People will see a cute baby and say it all the time, "oh can't you leave the baby behind." It's natural... babies/toddlers/infants are cute and people want to play with them, have more interest in them over the mother.

The next time your MIL says that, just smile and say, "You know how it is. You love your son so much and it's hard for a mother to part from her kids. Just like that, I can't part from my 1 year old daughter."

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Dont take everything so literally. U said it urself they r ASSUMING some1s coming from ur relos in england. Its not even confirmed if that persons going bak home for wedding. Just relax.Just curious..hypothetically speaking, if u were to send ur daughter whats the after plan? Is ur seat bboked to go bak soon after that and how soon or r they saying she ll b sent bak with the same relative?

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As If you really always do what your husband and mother in law say anyways :smack:

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Recalling from your old posts, when you left your daughter with your MIL to go out with your husband, your MIL created a fuss about the child & called you guys to come home quick........... I dont get how she is going to take care of her without her mother, with a wedding in the house, while she is a working woman.

In-laws somehow have to show that they are in-laws...........

Just ignore for now..go to uk, relax & be thankful that you are with your family