It's only been Nikkah for me so far but everytime I visit hubby and inlaws, I am treated like a princess. The 3-4 weeks I spend with them is like having the best vacation.. especially with my husband who does everything for me to make sure I have the best trip... the fact that he lives in sunny Miami is a bonus. He takes me to my favorite restaurants, beaches, malls, everywhere. 'You're leaving in just a few days...' is always a good reason to keep the wife happy :D This is why I like long distance relationships- when I finally get to see the hubby, he tries to make it as special as he can. Same with the inlaws, they usually plan everything ahead in excitement such as where to take me, eating out, etc etc.. MIL cooks my favorite stuff on the weekends, and no matter whether it's a school night or not for my devars, we all stay up watching movies, playing games, etc. Let's see how it is after rukhsati :D
So you are not rukhsatified, but you go to stay with them for weeks? as a guest? or as a wife (matlab u n hubby staying together)?
Sorry if i m being nosy. I am just trying to understand the situation on your end :D
EDIT: just read your other post :)