yuppp... MashAllah MashAllah!!!
wow four years and she still doesnt do anything mashallah i wish my sas would spoil me like tht im getting married next year but even now when i go to my sas house i wash dishes and pick up the table and clean up my fiances room....i wonder whts gonna happen later and keep in mind i do go to school so how am i going to manage everything!!!! i get sooo scared sometimes and to top it off my fiance lives with my mil and fil so let see inshallah it wount be tht bad
well its not like she doesn't do anything at all. she has two kids mashallah. but being a bari bahu she doesn't have so much responsiblity... as an ideal bari bahu have. like wake up first in the morning and get things ready.. doesnt' matter if u are sick or anything. everything is very flexible. she did more work in her parents home then what she does there. thats why i said she is still hasn't landed MashALLAH.
as for you... dont worry... i think we all have to do it... and acccept it that it is after all our "job" "career" jo mukam aur jo kaam Allah naye marad aur aurat ko diye hain... woh tu karnaye hi hain. .... sirf aaj kal yeh hai keh aurtoon naye eik apnaye sir per apnaye aap ko mardoon saye bara prove karnaye ka bhoot sawar kiya howa hai.... thats why they have to handle double careers.
dont be scared... dua karo... boht dua karo... inshaAllah saab theek hoga. huggg