I know!!! thats what we scold him for alllll the time… especailly when he ate his own food!!
my cousin’s mother in law didn’t let her do anything for 6 months. when she got married she said for a year. but then my sister got too restless of not doing anything so she asked her mother in law if she can cook something atleast!! she is still hasn’t landed on earth in 4 years of marriage. MashAllah.