Re: After ramadan
Turn off is a strong word. I guess its more about comfort level. After living a lifestyle 30 some years - its what I am comfortable with. Perhaps its a fear of the unknown that bothers me.
Would a lot of girls be comfortable with a guy changing after marriage? Say with a long beard… turban, shalwar kameez like the tableeghi folks - that too in sub-urban america? Say it aint so.