Re: After marriage
Back when I was single (almost 3 years ago), I always took care of myself. Nails, make-up when going out, blow drying/straightening hair, going to gym…I did all that when I was single. He has seen me all dolled up…and he has also seen me while I was sick in the hospital at my worst. He sees me with full make-up when we “go out”…he also sees me in a old t-shirt/jeans, no make-up/hair up when we’re casually hanging out.
When I started dating him, nothing changed in my “beauty/self-care” routine.
When we got engaged, nothing changed either.
When we get married next year, I don’t plan on changing anything.
Why? B/C all those things…I did them (and still do it) for ME. 
I make an effort b/c I want to like what I see in the mirror…b/c I want to present the best “me” to the world. “Catching” a man while doing it all for myself is just a bonus.