After marriage

 My thoughts exactly, me and my husband were raised very differently his mom and he are clean freaks, I'm normal.  From the other person's point of view all I can say is that **it gets annoying. **I'm particular about hygiene and basic organization and cleanliness but my whole life cannot revolv around keeping the house clean, coz I enjoy doing other things too. I can't become like that character in desperate housewives , the one with the red hair, bree I guess, who keeps fussing about being picture perfect all the time.