Re: after iftar lastnight
you just have to have some will power…i know it’s easier said then done. just try and imagine all the greace and fats that are clogging up your arteries next time you take a huge bite out of that pakora! 
You can’t not cook it though…you have mashAllah a 10 yr old at home…you have to give him something to look forward to during ramadan. It only comes around once a year. I know I used to love all this stuff when I was a kid until I got a little bit older and became more health cautious.