Re: After Engagement...
i dont think there is anything wrong with interacting with your future spouse to be.. we used to be in contact before we got married.. (actually before we got engaged as it wasn't an arranged marriage)
so maybe, this ought to be a thread about arranged marriages and whether you should be in contact with your hubby or wifey to be.. ? and I would say "yes".. you need to know about each other.. goals, achievements.. future ideas.. they do tell a lot about a person... also it gives you both a chance to see each others faults and appreciate each other nonetheless... :)