After engagement, whats the concept of taking SHAB-E-RAAT?

[NaMaan]

@DaffyDuck

Sure

But do you know which items do you take to the in-laws side? And who sends it normally?

Sawab . . . and I think you usually send it , and from other side your husband . Btw if it will follow a daba of GulabJamun , then at least I won’t mind it at all .