Re: after a long time......
Bravo ... you r strong. I totally agree with your decision. You not only saved your family but also the future of u'r child.
The only thing i m concerned is the future. We men are very bad in learning from our past mistakes. If situation remains the same, he might do it again. Change the environment around him. Be more involved. Be little bit more nosy, unless you feel that you can trust him again.
As they say 'Khilao sonay ka nawala, or dekho shaar ke nazar sa'
'Give them food of gold but keep an eye like lion' :)
Best of luck.