Re: after a long time......
^ she said,
"i was affecting my son. and all this while, he was going thru his own depression and shame."
regardless of whos fault it is, the entire family suffers too. not everyone has the courage to walk around with their head held high. yes, the person who did the blunder has to face the humiliation and all but even those who love/care for him/her have to face alot of embarassment. people look at you with pity and some might even blame you. unfortunately, that's how the society works. and not many women are able to deal with it so they walk away from their cheating husbands.