hmmmm…
afreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen!!!
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fly like a bee, sting a like a butterfly.
well kya pata, u mite not have been xposed to these sort of pics then me kia karooon,well i know ke its the TV which makes a person curious abt these things, well in ur case u are fiering on the xposure/thori bohut indecency in the pic, well i never thought it in that way ke, i just said that ke she was the Afreen Afreen fame n now she is in films, mene to dimaaag me nudity ke baare me kuch aaya bhi nahin…so whom do u thing is broad minded haaan, u just saw this pic n blasted on it ke its indecent!!!
~ mera Junoon, meri DIL KI BAAT hai!!!
you didn’t see any ‘indecency’ in the pic.. and i did.. like i said.. depends on the level of emphasized decency you were brought up in… ohhh… would you like to post a pic of some close female relative of yours with similar ‘xposure/thori bohut indecency’..? i promise i wont see the indeceny/nudity in the picture… just to see how double-faced, and a hypocrite you are!
Its wierd really how you post one picture ‘to show us how bad pakistani actresses have gotten’ and then you post another pic about ‘the afreen afreen gal’… but of course you didn’t notice that they were indecent…
Junoonie, read over your post again.. and you’ll understand you were babbling.. not making any sense really…
What I don't understand is .. as soon as someone posts a pic of an actress/model in skimpy clothes, the first taunt he gets is "will you let your mother/sister wear these clothes?"
Geez.. come on. Gimme a break.
These women, these show-biz ppl, CHOOSE to act like that and wear clothes like that. They want attention, and fame and money and public adulation. They do these things. And ppl fall for it. Ppl idolize characters like Pamela Anderson, Julia Roberts, Madhuri Dixit... does it mean they will marry them or will they allow their sisters/wives to dress like that? Not really.
This is all make-belief to make ppl happy. This is what show-business is all about. This is the stuff these women like to do... to sensationalize the senses of the viewers, so they come and see their movies or dramas or music or whatever.
Why bring mothers/sisters in every such debate? huh?
It is perfectly possible, and entirely hypocritical, of every person to enjoy Brittany Spears sing and dance on the stage wearing a skimpy dress, at the same time expect his sister or wife to wear a hijaab. So, yes, however, u dislike it, thats human nature.
Who amongst you claims that he has done none of that, doesn't watch such women and THEREFORE does not condone such actions by those closest to him.
We don't condone such behavior from ladies close to us, not because we don't enjoy these actresses do it, but because we feel there is a difference between these sho-biz ppl and those women who are close to us, our family.
So, kindly limit your comments to the merits/demerits of the women in question, and do not bring family and mothers/sisters in every such debate. Those who enjoy music/movies have a right to do so. Those who don't, have a perfect right to stay away and express their censure.
[This message has been edited by Peacemaker (edited February 24, 2001).]
ammar itni energy aisay zaaya na karo
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pics were not so bad that u are constantly arguing with ppl here..and i have noticed u are always arguing/fighting with alot of ppl..so i guess its in ur nature..harr jaga taang arana sahi nahi hai
sheraz, guess who’s ‘taang-arraying’ now..
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yaar.. i thought they were not decent… so i said so.. you’re entitled to your opinion.. n i’m entitled to mine… fair enough..? yeah.. i only argue where i see people are following others blindly n i hate it when they try to prove it with wierd arguments…
khairr.. i’m tired of arguing too… especially since i aint gettin anywhere…
Peacemaker, my 'sister/mom' statement was because... he said that he did not see anything wrong with the clothing.. hence i thought he wouldn't mind such clothing on those closer to him either.
yaar ammar thuktay nahi ho tum lol..i know u are a nice guy..decent/relgious..but kabhi kabhi its good to chill out
I agree with Ammar bhai, wats the pnt of posting such pics here.. n as u were sayin how u felt bad bout Amber A’s pics… n here u r …posting pics like this again.. huh !!! jin logon ko aisi pics may interest ho unhi ko email kar dya karain.. rather than posting them in here !!!
its all cool here dude… but i see some my posts have gotten some others a little heated up..
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btw.. i am tired.. hehe.. no, really..
Ditto to mister Peacemaker...and like him i don't get it either...that why is this that everytime we discuss or raise the issue of decency, you guys end up on this comment....
"apni maa behn ko aisay kapRay pehna ke dekho"
"apni maa behn ke saamne aisi baat ker ke dekho"
and quite surprisingly these comments usually come from the advocates of decency....:)Don't you guys find it funny??i mean do u think this is a decent comment??? jumping to maa behn stuff....do u call urself decent??haiN??
and about rules and standard here on this BB.....you guys should not forget that we are serving here not just the ppl from "pind dadun khan" or "cheechooN ke maliyaaN".....we have member from all over the world......and ofcourse the standard of a person from "cheechooN ki maliyaaN" will be different from a person who is born n raised in Denmark or NL or any other european country....
wot we want from u guys is to understand this and compromise somewhere in between....all of our members are equally valueable to us....we want all of you to enjoy this BB.....don't make our job hard for us....be a lil more open minded and skip if u don't like something....pehli nazar tou Rab ne muaf ki hi hei....Rab is great:)
Therefore Live N Let Live....
Ciao
Naik
you’re right naik.. it sounded a little cheap i guess.. i just wanted to know.. how these advocates(
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) of ‘broad-mindedness’ feel about it.. whether they like to see it on someone else’s mother or sister or on their own… uff.. there i go again.. sorry.. i quit..
NL..achi taqreer ker laiti ho..
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u shud be in politicz…
“dosron ko nasehat…
khud bibi fazehat…”
Alf Allah Chunmbay Di Booti
Mere Maan Vich Murshad Lai Huu..
Naffi Asbaat Da Paani Mallaya
Har Raggay HarJai Huu
[Sultan Bahuu]
The Day She Left…
FriDaY_JaN_26Th_10:30:00_A.M…
Dervaish, i don't think i ever stooped that low....to maa behn stuff.
aur wesay bi i like baap bhai stuff much better!
ps> and wot do u mean by "politics meiN hona chaiay"....wot do u think i am doing in mod team??haiN?
well i guess in this post the woman isnt muslim at all, n she doesnt abt what she’d doin,a s its in her culture, which does not stops her, n if our ppl ppl do it then thats the point which kills me, thats is hum hi log aise hain ke doosron ko bolte hain, lekin jab khud karte hain to kuch nahin bolte, so overall we can say ke we all are hypocrites!!!
~ mera Junoon, meri DIL KI BAAT hai!!!
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Originally posted by NaikLarki:
**Ditto to mister Peacemaker...and like him i don't get it either...that why is this that everytime we discuss or raise the issue of decency, you guys end up on this comment....
"apni maa behn ko aisay kapRay pehna ke dekho"
"apni maa behn ke saamne aisi baat ker ke dekho"
and quite surprisingly these comments usually come from the advocates of decency....:)Don't you guys find it funny??i mean do u think this is a decent comment??? jumping to maa behn stuff....do u call urself decent??haiN??
and about rules and standard here on this BB.....you guys should not forget that we are serving here not just the ppl from "pind dadun khan" or "cheechooN ke maliyaaN".....we have member from all over the world......and ofcourse the standard of a person from "cheechooN ki maliyaaN" will be different from a person who is born n raised in Denmark or NL or any other european country....
wot we want from u guys is to understand this and compromise somewhere in between....all of our members are equally valueable to us....we want all of you to enjoy this BB.....don't make our job hard for us....be a lil more open minded and skip if u don't like something....pehli nazar tou Rab ne muaf ki hi hei....Rab is great:)
Therefore Live N Let Live....
Ciao
Naik
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well i agree with u, well this also a typical Paki soch, when they are not gettin somethin to then simply approach to the family memebers!!!!
~ mera Junoon, meri DIL KI BAAT hai!!!!
Peacemaker and Naiklarki,
I don't know how did you see insult of mother and sister with the comment "apni maan behn ko in kaprron mein dekho" as the whole idea is to remind those people their standards of morality. If these standards are different for one girl and different for other who are more dearer to them then they are hypocrites.
I had already answered this in my post.
Yes, its hypocritical. Yes, it bad. And yes, this is how we are. Like it or not
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We have one standard of rules for our family and our women.
We have a different standard of rules for seeing Madhuri dance or Jennifer Lopez performing.
For most of us, these two don’t match. Never did. Never will.
So give up this unnatural comparison (however, correct you may be)
Assumptions assumpions. Never forget assumptions are wrong.
Which assumption are you talking about?
Isn’t it true that most ppl on this forum watch movies, and music videos and what not? Is it an assumption that in most of these videos, the dresses of the performers are not what our mothers and sisters wear?
Where is the assumption here?
I am saying this may be considered as hypocritical, but its true.
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Point being, don’t involve mothers/sisters in your criticism. Criticize on the facts of the image, thats fine.