Afraid....

It is just a general question about life, like anyone might come across in daily life…

Suppose your intentions were to sincerely help someone as a fellow human being because you used to feel deeply hurt to see that person going through pain in life by making wrong choices (in your opinion), but somehow you end up hurting the person by your improper emotional behaviour which were not intended to hurt the person but sincerely offer a solution.

You immediatly appologise when you realize that you should have been careful in your behaviour as you have no right to pass comments about someone’s private life when you are not even related to that person in anyway. You repent and decide not to repeat the mistake but can’t take the words back as they already have done the damage.

But after that you feel that the person might have given you a “BADDUA” (don’t know it’s translation in english, may be curse), and that thing keeps bothering you, and you are not able to sleep because of fear and tears.

Also, you don’t know if that person has forgiven you, and if it is appropriate to say sorry again and again.

What would you do if suppose you face such a situation in life ?

Re: Afraid....

The concept of baddua is a stupid one, there is no such thing. Whatever bad happens to you is a consequence of your own deeds. Black magic, that's another thing. Hope this person doesn't steal your mojo man.

Re: Afraid....

^ Baddua means a bad dua from heart, when anyone gets hurt.

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Its never appropriate to appologize over and over again. once or twice, if that person doesnt forgive you, nothing can be done. Imaan se maafi mangi hai to, thats enough. As for baddua’s, I dont believe such things. I think its more of a punishment from Allah. There is no logic behind baddua, for me atleast. Someone who wishes bad things to some one else and it happens? I thought only good prayers were heard.
So I guess I wont be able to give any proper advice :bummer:

Re: Afraid....

^ Thanks brother for the kind advice and words of encouragement. The reason why I was afraid is that if a person gets hurt by our words than Allah also becomes unhappy with us. But Allah Also knows our intentions. And I hope and wish that anyone who gets hurt may realize and forgive, for the love of Allah.

JazakAllah khair:)