How do you know a guy/girl is serious in their affections towards you?
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You'll know when they're starring at you and slowly tilt over to let it out.
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Tilt over as in?
Why are you looking for serious affection of a man ?:aq:
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Mirch i meant if you are a girl looking for a guy's affections and if you are a guy looking for a girl's affections.
That is very kind of you Rocky. i am being sarcastic
You'll know when they're starring at you and slowly tilt over to let it out.
ROFTLOL
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guys i was actually looking for some serious replies.
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Just ask them a simple question : " Do you like me or do you love me ?" End of the discussion.
How hard it is to blurt this four word question ?
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Mirch so you are telling me that i should be blunt and direct?
I think if someone is serious about it then it will show in their actions towards you or the way they talk to you ... if its an online relationship, then that may be more tricky ...
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Could the way someone looks at me also reflect their feelings towards me?
of course ... its the feeling, the 'warmth' or 'coolness' you may feel from someone ...
but we need to be careful cuz at times we want something so bad we start to see it in the other person even though it may not be there ...
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Yes that is true but what should one do in these kinds of situations? Where you want something so bad that we start to see it in the other person?
My advice and u may not like it ... step away ... till you are sure of the other persons feelings ...
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Oh no i did not mind it one bit, i am all for taking advice from other people. This is why i joined GS. How am i going to be sure?
ya .. but what i meant is ... sometimes we want something so bad .. we dont care much for consequences ... so at times thoug we want advice, we dont follow it ...
May I also add ... a relationship between a guy and gal outside of marriage is haraam .... :(
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One can never be sure.. Unless they tell you themselves...
Just because you are kind/nice to some one, doesn't mean you like them, in "that" manner..
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Princess i am not looking for sexual relationship! I just like this girl and would want to marry her, i think she likes me too but i am not sure about it that is why all these kinds of threads and questions.