Affair

Lifestyle Relationships
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So my husbands supervisor ‘A’ is having an affair with another colleague.

Now the thing is tht we knw both parties, n A has 2 beauuuttttiful sons MashAllah. The lady involved is divorced with a 19yr old daughter n 2 young sons.

My heart sinks everytime i see ‘A’s’ wife as i knw what is happening behind her back :frowning:

‘A’ has already warned hubs to stay away from the other lady as she was very good frnds with my hubby

Should i just mind my own business or shud i gve her a hint??

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Give her a hit . At least someone will enjoy the whole drama unroll :p

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Good grief. Desi women getting involved in Drama yet again. Will wonders never cease. :rolleyes:

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she has every right to know what her husband is getting up to behind her back... but u shouldnt be the one to tell her. she'll find out eventually. if u drop her a hint or something and it gets back to 'A' then he could make life difficult for ur hubby.

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*Stay out of it. *

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I'm pretty sure she already knows. Most women have an antenna for these kinds of things. Stay out of it.

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I would say to either stay out of it, she'll catch on to the cheating eventually. Or, maybe write an anonymous note or email to her? In the email/note say that you saw her husband with another woman and the relationship looked beyond friendly. Don't reveal the woman's name or your name.

Personally, I'd be too chicken to say anything, especially if her husband is the supervisor. I would probably stay out of it.

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Hi

you shud actually expose this cheating scumbag dog. these men always get away with it. and why the hell is he cheating on his wife? why not leave her for good and get with someone else. sorry but i hate cheats and liars.

if it comes to your hubby losing his job or something be a bit wary though. why not black mail the supervisor...A? say u will tell if it doesnt stop. before that get some evidence though.

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stay out of it. and if things go wrong .. you ll be to blame for spilling the beans ..

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what else can go wrong? the fact that another womans marriage is going wrong is worse, wat could be worse? i feel sorry for the wife. she has a right to know.

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Why not leave his wife for good? Because:

1) That's the mother of children

2) Fears for his career/reputation withing the community (which he doesn't seem to being going a good job of concealing...since people are already on to him).

3) Doesn't want to upset his family or his wife's family

4) I wonder if the wife's plausible inability to support herself on her own might be another reason.

Not justifying his actions.

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Things can go right in a way .. that he takes this divorced lady his second wife with the permission of his first .. but this is far fetched :D

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You know both parties. So did both parties confess to having this affair.....example A telling your husband.....and his mistress telling you???

What if you and your husband are the only ones that know about this affair...and any attempt at trying to inform his wife points back to you? Are there many people who know about this?

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ok so i wont tell, but do u think wat hes doing is right?

My hubby is also a supervisor in the same sompany but he works though an agency and is not permanent whereas A is.

for those of u who may b wondering his ethnicity or watever hes egyptian muslim n his wife is ukrainian n the OTHER lady is portguese :frowning:

i spoke to hubs about this n he said we shud keep ourselves to ourselves, i guess hes right i mean we dont knw wats happening in their personal life, peraps thing have turned sour :hmmm:

RV- theres a group of about 5-6 of them who r tight nit mates at wrk so yeah i guess most of them knw as A told hubs to keep away frm the mistress, now thts another stry

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We can't really say what's going on...maybe his wife is having an affair too for all we know.

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Nobody here is agreeing with the guy’s actions. Do other people know? How did you and your husband find out about the affair.

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^^ ok since you mentioned 'egyption' .. yehh thas kinda normal for him then ... maybe not about the affair part but they have the habbit of having more than one wife at one time .. and soo maybe hes thinking hes being left out of this privilage in this country .. thas why maybe hes doing this ..

and are the ladies muslim?? if not then .. am guess that the egyption guy is just by name cos i ve seen many

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wohi tho :hinna:

RV- the mistress my hubby ‘I’ and another guy ‘B’ were very close frnds untill a few days ago, they always accompined one another to bbqs parties or watever. Now A was always left out n got kinda jealous coz hubs always tells me everything tht happens during the day.

Khair A told his mistress something about ‘I’ n they fought n broke up n then he told mistress something else to cause her to argue with my hubby n ‘B’ now they r all broke up with her, he made his path clear perhaps im nt sure

FBI im nt sure if his wife is also muslim or not :bummer:

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One one hand, I would ask myself if it was me in the wife's shoes...would I want to be told? I would, yes.

On the other hand, its none of my business and I really dont know what is happening between them.

I would find some sort of anonymous way to tell her...like find a computer in the middle of nowhere and send an email through unknown account. It just seems so weird that all of this is happening right in front of your eyes Sweetu, you know?

Its a tough call.

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You know as I know sweetu . . . for all she is , but not a chicken .

:chai:

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