Re: Advise
So you've been a bit spoiled. So what? :) Just kidding.
If you really want this to work then you've got to train yourself. Its like working out, quitting smoking, letting go of a bad habit.
Everytime you get upset, stop yourself for a brief second and give yourself a choice. Is this worth it?
As the saying goes: pick your battles. If you always argue or get upset about everything, then you wont be taken seriously when it really matters to you. So, for your own sake choose things you want to get upset about. The next time you get upset, ask yourself whether this conflict will matter in the long run. If it wont, swallow your anger and walk away. If it will, stand your ground. :)
Oh and congratulations!