Re: Advise required, how to get over someone
wel redvelvet ur very idealistic in ur views rn u lol atleas ur polite n nice but the truth is....no one loves no one unconditionally except ur mother. Love is not an abstract emotion, it is relevant, selfish emotion. Respect is what u shud look for though. he shud respect u n care for u,,,love will follow. So, if he was always cocky n rude abt u making up ur mind den he is not worth u getting upset over but if u feel he respected u n cared for u den try speaking to him, tell him in a clear, honest n open way,,look i thought about it alot n i have feelings for u. i thought i wud talk to u once n try to make it work before we get out of each odas life...do u want to talk abt things between us? leave it at dat. After dat see how he reacts, dnt b too quick to dismiss him but dnt be taken for a ride. when u were 2gda, u mentioned that u felt u two were different so i wud say dnt undervalue ur intuition. may b he wasnt good for u as gut feelings r v rarely wrong!