Re: advise required from.... married ladies
Well, are u buying stuff for his family also? If u r gettign stuff for yours, then you should for his also. A tip, when getting something for your mum, get similar for his, say look, I got this for your mom, and and this for mine, it will be more acceptable for him to see that if his family is getting something, then yours is also.
Having said that, a man is not obliged to spend on his in-laws, just as u r not obliged to spend on your in-laws.