Re: advise required from.... married ladies
thanks all of u for ur response.. appreciate it :)
yar i always buy for his family first.... infact mostly.... i hardly buy anything for my family...
pyaree.... dear,i agree with u dat I shud not argue on dis... as i dnt want him to b against my family... he says dats my brothers responsibility to buy gifts for dem not mine...
As u said, if i buy stuff for my sis, he suddenly says, dis vil look gud on his mom or sis or chachi or phophi ....... whtevr... and its gone.
haan jahan kuch cheap ho... den he asks me to buy dat for my family... and dat irritates me... :(
yar the thing is i dnt want to b dis honest wid him, otherwise agar mujha kuch chupa ka la jana ho to kisi ka bap ko pata nah chala... + even my parents wudnt except anything like dat...
its not dishonesty.u as his wife hav a right on his income n if u hav a joint account or he giv u an allowance u r free to spend it the way u want eg if my husband says to me u can spend one lac rupees on clothes on our trip to pak that one lac is mine n if i buy few suits for my mom n sis it shouldn't bother anybody.
otherwise tell him if he doesn't want u to buy anything for ur family u won't get involved in his shopping spree for his family n let him buy things on his own.