Re: advise required from.... married ladies
u r not paying ur familys bills or rents its gifts n since u r buying for everyone in his side of family hes not right in not letting u buy for urs.i think u shouldn't ask him if he likes it or not just make a budget n list of immediate family members so u don't overspend.U can also make a deal with ur husband to giv u a specific monthly allowance n it should b ur choice on whom n how to spend it.another thing u can sacrifice some of the stuff u wanna buy for urself n instead buy something for ur family.this way u can let him know that u r sacrificing ur portion.also no need to show him everything u buy.
the tip Rupay gav is also gud that buying same set of things for both sides might do the trick.