Re: advise guppies
just write down all the things that bothered you... like EVERYTHING - not necessarily about hubby.
Then try to focus on which one bugged you the most. I am sure, on your list there would be at least one big reason that you loose sleep over. Concentrate on finding a solution for that. Your hubby could possibly be a reason for that problem or may be you are just beating him up for no reason ...
we can help... but we need to know what bugged you the most before and after the trip. I know you said you had a good time. However, good time does not mean self satisfaction even if there are underlying issues. They are obviously bugging you.