Advice

Saleem

I apologise for annoying you. I just needed someone to talk to about this. A lot of people have there lives and beliefs sorted. Ive just been really down this past year and needed some advice and didnt know where to turn

Perhaps your right. Maybe I shouldnt have laid my problems on people I dont know. I think I was a bit selfish.

Again sorry

uklawyer,

There is no need to apologise. The majority of folk here are very decent people, who will try and help as much as can be. Unfortunately, there are also some morons who have nothing better to do, apart from lay into genunine guys. It doesn't mean you are wrong, or need to say sorry for anything.

The best thing to do is ignore such folk. It took alot of guts to be so open on here, dont let these insignificant beings make you believe your in the wrong. I for one could never be so open in front of others, and I respect you for being able to do that.

Salaams

Your feeling sorry for yourself won't help u UKL. Go out and get some exercise, then get on with your life. religion or no religion, the show must go on.

Saleem, I on the other hand did not out it across in precisely the words u choose to use :rolleyes:, and I do not feel UKL is pathetic. Only depressed. And he needs to have some good healthy social contact rather than PC-boredom.

UKL, in order to delve into the practise of religion, u need to be of sound mind. I seriously do mean exercise. Sports are good, and will help u get re-adjusted with society once again. This will help u concentrate and get improve your focus, and this is essential if u want to learn discipline, because u need discipline in order to practise any religion regularly.

So I suggest u leave everything right now and go for a long walk. Take yr mind off things, shell out a few buck to join a gym or health club or soccer team or sailing club, and meet a broader range of people. After that, when u r emotionally back on your feet again, u can go explore whatever religion u like.

Cheers! :wink:

saleemwaqar.

It might do you good to heed a bit of your own advice, and go out and get a life. If you have nothing nice to contribute, then dont contribute anything at all. There are certain guidelines, common sense and common courtesy rules governing this forum. You are expected to abide by them.

Thank you for your cooperation.

I AM ENTITLED TO MY OPINION

FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION--

I DIDNT SWEAR OR SAY ANYTHING OFFENSIVE

I JUST GAVE MY OPINION

FUNDAMENTAL HUMAN RIGHT

A very bad move to move this thread from cafe` to Religion:nook:

‘Responses this thread got after moving in Religion forum, are very sad.’

I can't vouch for everything being true on this website...but its been good so far as I've experienced it.

themodernreligion.com

A lot of rulings upon certain things are based upon certain conditions, and I think we pull them to apply to all times, when they really shouldn't be applied to all times...so, its always a good idea when reading the Quran to do some research on why a certain verse was revealed...

You'd have to go to an Islamic library to find some information, or order books offline. The problem is that there is no major book collection out here in the US.

Re: Nobody cares

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*Originally posted by saleemwaqar: *
UK Lawyer DONT WASTE OUR TIME

"OH MY DADDY DIED" and "I want to be a muslim" BOO HOO BOO HOO
NOBODY CARES
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Saleem Waqar,

Congratulations - if this poor guy wasn't confused already about Muslims and Islam, you probably convinced him to make a decision to hate Muslims for the rest of his life with your thoughtless answer.

Next time, kindly try to put yourself in others' shoes - his father passed away and you are making ignorant comments like that? Makes ME ashamed to call myself a Muslim Pakistani.

don't judge Islam by the behaviour of few human beings...
Well Said Gadha but that is what ppl in west and all over the world are doing nowadays .that's really sad !

[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by saleemwaqar: *
I AM ENTITLED TO MY OPINION

FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION--

I DIDNT SWEAR OR SAY ANYTHING OFFENSIVE

I JUST GAVE MY OPINION

FUNDAMENTAL HUMAN RIGHT
[/QUOTE]

You are entitled to your opinion. But who said anything about freedom of expression? This forum is governed by a set of guidelines, written and unwritten ones. No such thing as freedom of expression. Live with it.
As for your fundamental human rights, you are not the only person on this earth. Watch out for rights of others as well.

And kindly dont use caps again.

Well Uk Lawyer, God bless your parents, A lot of ppl have already said enough for your understanding. And if you R a lawyer in life, then it makes sense for you to be logical. But some times there is no logical explanation for things to understand.
Having a death experience is like that, especially of your near and dear ones. It actually is a test of your strength and wisdom.
Have you ever pondered about the death of small innocent children with cancer, The children who even do’nt know the concept of death.
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