Re: Advice
Get to know other Pakistani families in the area and invite them over for dinner. Just b/c SIL is related to you, doesn’t mean you have to invite her and her annoying husband for dinner on a regular basis. Invite them once in a while…like once every 2-3 months…but otherwise limit contact. You don’t like her husband and based on what you write, it doesn’t sound like SIL and you are close friends.
And when the husband asks you questions which you are not comfortable answering, simply tell him directly that you do not feel comfortable discussing the topic with him and if he really wants to know, he should ask your husband.
Yes. Don’t waste your time and energy on adults who are not asking you for your help or your opinions on their marriage/life.