Hi, I am writing on behalf of very good friend. We know each other since many years. She doesn’t know about this forum but I know people on this forum give good advice and suggestions that can really help someone in stress.
So this lady is mum of three kids, religious and clean heart person. A married man in her neighbour had a crush on her and when she found out she was interested too but later she thought it would be wrong as both are married and have kids too she didn’t want to become a home wrecker and it is forbidden in the religion too it will end in disaster etc etc she didn’t show any interest to that guy and she was fighting against her own Nafs as she told me. She backed off and the man also moved on. She had not removed him from his mind completely when she and the man came in front of each other by co incidence and she was stuck she couldn’t move and the man asked the way as she was blocking the door as both are neighbours and share main gate to street.
she said she doesn’t know what happened to her and why she was stuck she is so embarrassed and was saying that he might think that she is repenting or wants to go back and he rejected him as she rejected him in the start she says “ I don’t feel peace since it has happened and I can’t eat or sleep properly” she is very upset over this and thinks it has given an impression of interest in him which she has been pretending not to be.
Any kind suggestions to help come over this. I asked her to write everything on a paper and put a big cross to help you feel lighter. She did it twice and says I feel the same embarrassment.
Absolutely. Even if it isn't about your own life story but rather of a 'friend' of yours.
Carry on though boss, I got zero beef against you. Just wanna see the so called masters in reading english (or was it malyalam?) waali ka response to your query. =)
90 percent women surveyed said they would be okay poaching husbands. It is important for current wives of desirable men to keep them content, appreciated and loved. Never let your men leave a home hungry or h...y there is always a sandwich n a .... out there. What your friend is fealing maybe some hormones. It takes a really long tome for someone to fall in love and many there mistake physical attraction for love. If your friend lives in Muslim country, polygamy is allowed in religion.
She knows polygamy is allowed but as she is a women she couldnât cheat on her husband for another man. Moreover if the other man is looking for a marriage then why to crush over a married lady with kids. Why not to go for a widow or divorced.
In my opinion he was looking for a time pass and my friend is intelligent that she did not take any step and refrained from any bad thing though she is struggling with her own emotions because she liked him too
"Real niggaz do they wanna do, b!tch niggaz do what they can't" - 2pac
Your friend is obviously being played with, hence just let her know to keep her emotions in check and run for them mountains as soon and fast as she can. My apologies if this sounds a little blunt but please do not let him put her in his bed. Kinda seems he is in it just for that.
